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Many family trees had my 3x great-grandfather, Samuel Spence, with parents Ebenezer Spence and Margaret Merriam. Some even had Ebenezer and Margaret born and dying in England with generations further back, which was clearly wrong, since Sam had been born in Nova Scotia in 1814. Sam could have been born in Nova Scotia while his father stayed in England, however unlikely, but his mother had to have been in Nova Scotia in 1814. Not many people went back to the old country after emigrating.

Sam's death in 1874 was listed in the death register. In the Father column, it said Ebenezer &. In the Mother column, it said Margaret Merriam. Handwritten, in an original record, so it must be right.

I searched in all kinds of Nova Scotia records for an Ebenezer Spence and a Margaret Merriam and couldn't find any. However, the Merriam family was prominent in the area, and they had a father-son-grandson trio all named Ebenezer Merriam. Now, Ebenezer is an unusual name, and I probably wouldn't have noticed it if the name were John. But I began to think that when Sam's son gave the info for his father's death record, he mixed up his grandfathers. So I plugged in the possibility that Sam's parents were Mr. Unknown Spence and Margaret Merriam, and Margaret was the daughter of one of the Ebenezer Merriams.

But! The prominent Merriams were in all kinds of records, censuses, family Bibles, etc. Not only did none of the Ebenezers have a daughter named Margaret, there were no Margarets in the Merriam family at all! I thought Margaret was possibly a middle name or a nickname not listed in records.

Some time later, another genealogist researching in the same county happened to mention that the death registers were compiled by clerks. The original records were separate slips of paper that the registrars sent in quarterly. I immediately thought I could use the original slips to get some clue to Sam's actual parents.

Eureka! The clerk had made a mistake in the register! I don't blame him, because the registrar's handwriting was atrocious. The same week as my Sam died, a man of the same age died named James Merriam. It was James's parents who were Ebenezer and Margaret Merriam! The clerk had switched the men's parents.

So who were my Sam's parents? Well, they were assigned to the wrong man. Unfortunately, not much info there. No one knew Sam's father's name; under Father, it just says blacksmith. And here's why the mistake was probably made -- Sam's mother's first name was Mirriam.

How to change all the incorrect info on all the online trees? I emailed some people I know. I posted about it "Caution! False Spence Ahead!" on my blog, www.grandmasgrannysfamilyalbum.blogspot.com. I called the Nova Scotia Vital Statistics, but they said they can't do anything about the mistake because all they can do is show the records as they are.

Just a cautionary tale.....if you just copy trees, they are likely to be wrong.

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